HER, HIM & I

a debut poetry collection


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Introspective, vulnerable, and tantalizing, Her, Him & I is a love letter to queerness — capturing the joy, grief, ecstasy, and hope that accompany it. The poems tackle the complexities of infatuation, heartache, sexual assault, and toxic masculinity.

Across three acts, Weissmann offers readers an unfiltered view into his psyche through several romantic relationships. These poems magnify the reality of exploring emotional and physical intimacy with multiple genders, all while navigating the journey of self-love.

Her, Him & I is a coming-of-age celebration of heartbreak and healing.

ADVANCE PRAISE FOR HER, HIM & I


“A tender yet visceral collection that spoke to my big bisexual heart. Weissmann’s words find the romance in the everyday, transporting us through formative moments of a life well loved.” — JEN WINSTON, author of Greedy & Lambda Award Finalist

Her, Him & I is sensual, wistful, and earnest. This collection gorgeously balances the dualities of hope and heartbreak, nostalgia and anticipation, flirtation and loathing, playfulness and sincerity. Your heart will ache in your chest as Christian illustrates what it means to move on, defy, and bloom.” — MADISEN KUHN, author of Almost Home

“From the very first line, Weissmann builds a vulnerable world of love, lust, and loss. You will feel with him, you will yearn with him, you will sigh in relief, and ultimately you will hope with him. Weissmann has proved themselves as a young poet to look out for through their debut collection, which illuminates the importance of falling for oneself.” — ELI RALLO, author of I Didn’t Know I Needed This

Her, Him & I is a romantic walk down memory lane that fuels your senses. Weissmann has choreographed a dance with words— beautifully capturing how the relationships of our youth teach us things about ourselves we’d never learn otherwise.” — MICHAELA ANGEMEER, author of Please Love Me at My Worst

“Weissmann’s Her, Him & I is a necessary addition to the queer literary canon. It is a collection of poems that gives, to its readers, permission: to feel, to pine after whomever.” — GRANT CHEMIDLIN, Lambda Award Finalist & author of What We Lost in the Swamp

“This book lovingly cradles readers who are in the dance of finding their identity in romance and relationships. A collection filled with love, eve in some of Weissmann’s deepest heartaches.” — Brianna Pastor, author of Good Grief

“Christian makes poetry feel so fresh and modern. His words remind us that love is the most important thing, the only thing, really.” — RENE LYNCH, editor at LAist & LA Times